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Dear Jill,

I am a pansexual female, and when I go to the club with my girlfriend, men think it is okay to come on to my girlfriend. They act like my relationship with her is not serious. What can I do to let them know?


This is something that is unfortunate but happens all too often. Men fantasize about being with two women at the same time, also known as the King Triade. My three suggestions are.

  1. Ask your girlfriend to let the man know that she’s in the committed relationship and not interested
  2. Tell the man that you both are in a relationship together and are not interested.
  3. You both walk away and just ignore him.

There are other ways to handle it, but those are three of my suggestions.

By: Jill Hills, Sexpert


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